"If it is true that the observer and the observed are inextricably linked in creating reality, then our gratitude actually does help bring the world into being," Dr. Joan Borysenko.
A friend who provides care for her husband with dementia sells clothing out of her home. I like to support her because I think she can use the money, and I think she benefits from the diversion: the thing of interest for her to do besides provide care to her spouse. It is important for me to have diversions too; things which interest me, are fun and give me hope. Some of my diversions are gardening, water and oil painting, writing, biking/running, life coaching (which is lovely as I can do it by phone from home), and cooking. Last night I made a rhubarb pie from new spring rhubarb. Yum. What are the things that nurture you while you nurture someone with dementia?
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