The Way Is Long

1/3 third of caregivers will die doing the task, 1/3 will have their health irreparably damaged, and 1/3 will come out the other side better for having done it.  Roslyn Carter Institute

Which 1/3 do you want to be?  It is extraordinarily stressful to do caregiving.  It will take self care techniques for you to come out of this better for having done it.