"In actuality, underneath all the plans, pressures, and expectations, underneath all the subtle guidance and nudging we receive from almost everyone, the next step is truly unknown and has never been taken by anyone." Mark Nepo
If you, like me, have had people who felt free to give their opinions on how you provide caregiving, this quote is a comfort. No one can walk in our shoes. No one knows what our situation is like. It is incredible audacity for anyone to give unsolicited advice to anyone else. A good practice is to give your opinion ONLY when asked, and then very carefully --- noting that it is, after all, only your opinion. It takes courage to walk our own path, especially amidst the criticisms and opinions; but walk it we must. There is so much truth in the adage that we can only please ourselves; and it is extremely stressful to try to please anyone else. So, today, what do you think is the next best thing? Let us trust our own judgment.
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