"I have no power of miracle other than the attainment of quiet happiness, I have no tact except the exercise of gentleness." Oracle of Sumiyoshi
Gentleness toward ourselves and others is a good life practice. That is one reason I never argue with or correct Dwane when he tells me about something which is obviously a hallucination he had or when he gets a fact or date wrong. When one is having hallucinations, that is his or her reality. What point is there in correcting, or trying to correct, their perception? In fact, isn't there arrogance for us to think that our perception of reality is the only one -- the right one? Instead, I listen and acknowledge what he seems to be feeling within the hallucination. Seems good practice to me.
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This blog is written to provide information and support to persons who are providing care for someone with dementia. A first indicator of dementia is when someone has trouble doing a task once familiar and easy for them. If you have begun to be concerned about someone's memory or cognitive processing, help the person receive a physical exam, to include lab work, and an appointment with a neuropsychologist for an evaluation of memory and cognitive processing.
Jun 11, 2014
Power of Gentleness
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