Today we celebrate our 40th Earth Day, a day set aside to consider how we as a species are impacting the planet on which we live. News media is covering the advances we have made in protecting our environment, and the areas still endangered. Just in the area of endangered species: the bald eagle has made a recovery; while the dusky seaside sparrow is believed extinct.
What does Earth Day have to do with living graciously with dementia? It seems to me that the extent of respect we extend to our living environments can be reflective of the respect we extend to our fellow humans. And that respect must start in and flourish in the home. It is important to be respectful to the cashier and in other passing interactions, but what is vitally important is to be respectful in one own's family. Respectful interactions is a standard I highly value.
Respectful interaction is important in living with dementia, and it pays off. We are enjoying a period of tenderness and lucidity. It seems that Dwane is more peaceful, even with some externally-caused consternation. His humor is a delight. He faces life with equanimity and grace. Lovely. One of the good things about this type of dementia is the periods when he is alert and present. Such gifts, and I am so grateful.
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