"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself - nameless, unreasoning, unjustified, terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance."
---- FDR - First Inaugural Address, March 4, 1933
Some current spiritual thinkers say there is only fear and love. We either are choosing our thoughts and behaviors on fear -- or on love. If that is the case, what do we want our thoughts and actions to be as dementia caregivers? There is much to fear if we focus on this progressive and terminal illness: steady but erratic decline in cognitive/physical/motor skills, increased isolation, increased responsibility for us as caregivers. If we look down the road, there may be much to fear. But, what about today? Are you managing things to your satisfaction today? Are you free from catastrophe? Are you and the person for whom you provide care safe, fed, sheltered? Chances are that this moment you are okay. Why not believe that is true for the tomorrows as well? All is well. That is a mantra I have when I feel overwhelmed or distressed.
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