Being True to Ourselves

"The unwavering truth is that when we agree to any demand, request or condition that is contrary to our soul's nature, the cost is that precious life energy is drained off our core." Mark Nepo

Probably none of us asked to be a caregiver, unless you are caregiver of a baby you desired or take this role of caregiving on voluntarily.  Most of us will have had caregiving cast upon us.  Even with caregiving, I think it is important to not agree to any demand, request or condition that is contrary to our soul's nature.  I think it is important for us and for our loved one.  That does not mean we do not have some responsibility toward our loved one.  I think we do need to make sure our loved one is safe and has respectful care, but that does not necessarily mean the care comes from us.  Even if you feel financially like you have no choice, there are options available to you.  If you choose to care for your loved one 24/7, as I did for several years, then please make sure you also take care of yourself in the process.  In fact, a good rule of thumb is to provide 24/7 care only as long as you can also care for your own well being.