"Pure religion manifests itself through acts of kindness." Science of Mind, p 499
The Dalai Lama has said the same thing: that his religion is kindness. Perhaps there can be no religion without kindness. We all have known people who profess great faith, but are unkind to others. Perhaps we have even done that ourselves at times. As caregivers, perhaps the greatest quality to be called forth from us is kindness. We listen to the stories and complaints and hallucinations of our loved one. We listen, we draw him or her out into areas we know were areas of interest, we are kind. I often try to draw my loved one into a memory of history, as he knew more about history than any person I have ever known. I also talk with him about memories we have shared, trips we have taken, we laugh about the broom we used to sweep the floor in Russia. Kindness. It blesses our loved one and it blesses us.
This blog is written to provide information and support to persons who are providing care for someone with dementia. A first indicator of dementia is when someone has trouble doing a task once familiar and easy for them. If you have begun to be concerned about someone's memory or cognitive processing, help the person receive a physical exam, to include lab work, and an appointment with a neuropsychologist for an evaluation of memory and cognitive processing.
Jan 13, 2015
Kindness
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