Finding Balance

"The work of the mature person is to carry grief in one hand and gratitude in the other and to be stretched large by both."  Dr. Frances Weller

I think that is correct.  My work, as a mature person, is to experience the grief of my loved one dying -- and everything that goes with it (the meetings at the bank with an inexperienced and nonsupportive person, the layers of paperwork for insurance, the decisions both large and small, the credit card to be cancelled) --- And look for opportunities to be grateful.  Today I am grateful that a friend has come to help me with some maintenance projects and to participate in some supportive conversation.