"The refusal to love is the only unbearable thing." Madeleine L'Engle
I have chosen recently to increase my acts of love toward myself - in response to losing my keys and realizing I am under intolerable stress and pressures. In what ways do I do that? I use our hot tub more. I took a bike ride yesterday to make sure I got exercise. I bought some food at the store that would ensure I had some good meals. I called and arranged to meet with our priest, so that I can discuss funeral details. I got together with a woman who is just starting her journey with her spouse and dementia. I was able to give her some tips for things to do at the onset of this journey as we walked in a beautiful area. Knowing one is not alone is an act of self love. I have talked with my son on the phone, and I met my daughter and granddaughter for lunch. Spending time with those I love the most is the most loving thing I can do for me.
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This blog is written to provide information and support to persons who are providing care for someone with dementia. A first indicator of dementia is when someone has trouble doing a task once familiar and easy for them. If you have begun to be concerned about someone's memory or cognitive processing, help the person receive a physical exam, to include lab work, and an appointment with a neuropsychologist for an evaluation of memory and cognitive processing.
Sep 4, 2015
Loving Ourselves and Others
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