Jul 19, 2011

Challenges or opportunities?

"It is the difficult things that we meet that enable us to bring into action the greater power that is within us; difficulties, therefore, are the most valued of opportunities, and if taken advantage of as such, will always be met with joy." Christian D. Larson

Intellectually I believe the above quote, and, certainly, being caregiver for someone with dementia is a very difficult situation.  If it were not enough that one takes care of all business (to include trying to get insurance companies to pay), all repairs and maintenance, all medical, nutrition,  matter of well being and safety, all advocating for best possible care --- then, too, one can add facilitating relationships, dealing with family and friends.  All with likely no acknowledgement or expressed appreciation, and maybe even criticism.  All while trying to have some quality of life oneself.  When I said "yes" to helping Dwane see himself through this progressive and terminal illness, I knew it could also facilitate a new layer of growth and development for me.  It is just hard to see that in the day-to-day stress and endless responsibilities. 

"While no one enjoys being uncomfortable, we do have a choice on how we handle that discomfort of growth when it arises.  We can let it set us into a tailspin, or we can recognize it as a grand invitation from the Universe and seke out spiritual support, even giving thanks for the gifts that come with the experience," Joanne McFadden.

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