"Until we have developed self-respect and the humility that arises from authentic inner security, we are likely to feel guilty if we fail to please people, even when pleasing them would be harmful in some way." Dr. Joan Borysenko
The above quote is something I try to remember in caregiving. Lots of what Dwane would like, could be harmful to him. Such as riding his motorcycle. He could not get it running this summer, and I was greatly relieved because it would be potentially disasterous if he should try to ride it. We might want to think about the care receiver's preference versus harm when we consider what is the best placement for them to be in also. Most people want to stay in their own home. Who can blame them? But, there may come a time when the caregiving you provide along with the support you have created is simply not enough. Then, I think we need to muster the respect for self and other and act out of true kindness: in implementing what is the best setting for safety and well being
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