"Be willing to be a beginner every single morning." Meister Eckhart

As caregivers we will not have all the answers, nor should we expect ourselves to have them.  With Lewy Bodies Dementia, one never knows what degree of lucidity will be available at any given moment, so it is impossible to predict what might come up or how one might react.  To consider myself a beginner whenever I am with my loved one helps me.  I find that I gauge how he is and then I can adjust myself to meet him there.  It is okay to not have all the answers.