"Most things break instead of transform because they resist. In truth, the more we let love through, the more we have to love." Mark Nepo
As caregivers, we are called to love. Love ourselves and the loved one for whom we provide caregiving, as well as others. We can also be loving toward those others who also provide care for our loved one. Yesterday when I visited my loved one, a very kind woman was feeding him. I was so grateful. She was attentive, kind, and respectful. Exactly how I want him to be treated. The woman who is doing the new activities with him also spoke to me about how much she loved him. Love. It is so good to allow it, encourage it, nourish it. I took time to talk to the administrator of the care facility to tell her how much I appreciate the attitude of these two employees. Whenever we see love being acted out, let's acknowledge it. It is powerful.
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This blog is written to provide information and support to persons who are providing care for someone with dementia. A first indicator of dementia is when someone has trouble doing a task once familiar and easy for them. If you have begun to be concerned about someone's memory or cognitive processing, help the person receive a physical exam, to include lab work, and an appointment with a neuropsychologist for an evaluation of memory and cognitive processing.
Apr 26, 2015
Power of Love
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