Taking Time

"To see takes time." Georgia O'Keefe

To see our loved one takes time.  Someone said to me recently that they no longer go see my loved one because he is often asleep, and I wondered - what difference does that make?  He never sleeps for very long, and, if I get there and he is asleep, I sit and pray.  I use a meditation method I have used since I was a child, but a person could do anything - as long as it brings positive energy to the situation.  What do you do to spend time with your loved one?